I’ve only done it the one time, but is this something I need to retire? Even though it was thrilling, I feel conflicted because I know if someone saw it could make them feel uncomfortable or violated.

I liked that somebody might see me, but realized that the chances of that happening were pretty minimal. Recently, on a solo road trip, I had the desire to pull my shirt up and expose my breasts while driving on the highway. I like both the possibility of somebody seeing my nipples through my shirt and the constant but minimal stimulation whatever shirt I’m wearing provides. I sometimes enjoy not wearing a bra in public (never in work settings, and nothing completely see-through, and my breasts are relatively small). Send your questions for Stoya and Rich to. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. My Boyfriend Is Accidentally Telling Me How He Really Feels About Us in His Sleep I Can’t Believe the First Thing He Said to Me. I Just Slept With a Guy for the First Time Since COVID.

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